My friend and fellow writer, Margo, has nominated me for another blogging award that-
Hey, wait a minute. Stop running for the door, with terror in your eyes and a determination to take down anybody who gets in your way. Just relax. Yes, this is one of those blogger things where you are supposed to nominate other bloggers but I am not going to do that. I’m going to subvert the proceedings and simply make it all about me, which I’m very good at doing. All you have to do is your normal routine of scrolling through my latest meanderings, possibly leave a comment or two that will help justify my chosen purpose in life, and then rush off to convince 400 of your closest friends to follow my blog. (That last bit came from the part of my brain that still believes in hope and the kindness of strangers. It’s known as the Pollyanna Lobe.)
Firstly, I would like to thank Margo at That Little Voice for nominating me for this illustrious award. (I recently nominated Margo for a Liebster, so you may have already done the clicking bit, but if not, please visit her site. She’s quite lovely, and she makes me smile.) I had never heard of the “Room 101 Award” before now, but I’m sure it has a stellar reputation, and I actually like one of the concepts behind it, making things a bit different from the other awards out there. You get to banish people for bad behavior. Yay! (In the award rules, you are only supposed to banish 5 types of people. This is not a satisfying regulation. I will be expanding and expounding beyond that limit.)
Secondly, some possibly tedious background: “Banished to Room 101” is a plot point from George Orwell’s futuristic novel “1984”, published in 1949. (I will do my best to refrain from pointing out the things occurring in modern society that would necessitate the term “futuristic novel” be updated to “documentary”, at least when it comes to Orwell’s vision. I will not refrain from saying that letting willfully-ignorant people attain positions of power is never a good thing.)
See? All about me.
Back to the quasi-narrative. In Orwell’s fiction/nonfiction, misbehaving people (at least according to the bureaucratic government) were sent to Room 101 to reflect upon their poor attitude and/or face their greatest fears. It was an extreme time-out, an experience that would not inspire Judy Collins to sing about how she can look at clouds from both sides now. Still, at least in regards to this blogger award, the opportunity to banish people who annoy me is like ice cream for breakfast. Here we go…
People Who Should Be Banished to Room 101
1. The shoppers at grocery stores who have clearly pulled a package of something off the shelves, consumed the contents, and then tossed the remaining debris into their shopping cart without paying for the item. This means that the next person who grabs your cart of negligence and sin at the front of the store now has to deal with the fallout of your misdeed.
2. The clerks at grocery stores who gather up the shopping carts left willy-nilly in the parking lot. You couldn’t take two seconds to clean up the aftermath of the previous temporary owner of the cart? Grab whatever it is and throw it in the trashcan before you unceremoniously cram the violated contraption back into the chain-gang of available carts.
3. The cashiers who don’t even bother to grunt during the entire check-out process, shoving a receipt at you and glaring balefully if you don’t run away immediately. Sweetie, I’ve had your job before. And when I had that job, I was nice to people no matter how my personal day might be going. You’ll get over this. And P.S.: “Hello” and “Thank you” are not that hard to say. I’d pull the stick out of your ass, but something tells me you like it there. Have you given it a name?
4. The people at gas stations who don’t pull through to the farthest pump. So that’s how you roll, huh? You got what you wanted, so screw everybody else waiting behind you? Let me guess: You thought Dick Cheney was the best president who was never really a president.
5. The employees at gas stations who don’t take the time to refill the receipt tape at the gas pumps. “Your receipt is waiting inside.” I don’t want to go inside. That’s why I used my credit card out here, so I wouldn’t have to deal with other people, especially those who don’t want to do their job. (And don’t even get started with the “well, maybe the receipt tape just ran out”. It’s clear from the dust on the gas pump that no one has serviced this thing since Sacajawea said to Lewis and Clark “Maybe we should go west.”)
6. The people who zip into handicapped parking spaces and then nimbly hop out of the car and race into whatever establishment, and yet there’s no one else in the vehicle who might need special access. I don’t care if you have the little dangly sign on your review mirror. You clearly don’t need it, you obviously couldn’t care less about making life harder for people with mobility challenges by usurping real estate that doesn’t belong to you, and you suck as an example of humanity. Yet you have the gall to sport a “Jesus is My Co-Pilot” bumper sticker.
7. The people behind you who honk the exact second that the light turns green at an intersection. You really thought it was okay to go there? If you are that self-involved, then you are in obvious need of medication. Perhaps you should adjust your GPS device so that it takes you to the nearest therapist. And when you get there, I hope other people honk at you as you walk across the parking lot and you wet yourself a little. Because, karma.
8. The people who cannot participate in a conversation in real time. Topic A has been discussed, and we have proceeded to Topic B. Topic A is firmly in the archives at this point. Yet you’ve been sitting there, formulating the perfect response to Topic A in your head while the rest of the world moves on. You suddenly spout out some bit of babble that does not pertain to the current flow of dialogue, forcing everyone else at the table to pause and wonder what the hell you’re talking about. This is known as discoursus interruptus, and it is not a good thing. If you miss the window, you miss the window. Life is too short for do-overs.
9. The unsympathetic fools who automatically assume that poor people are poor because they made bad choices. Sometimes they made the best choice they could at the time, and it just didn’t work out.
10. The people at Chinese restaurants who cherry-pick all the good bits out of the offerings on the buffet line, leaving the rest of us to deal with Kung Pao Chicken that does not have any chicken in it.
11. The people who think that burdening our youth with the enormous cost of a college education, a debt that can take decades to pay off, is perfectly fine. Yet these same people didn’t even blink an eye when billions of taxpayer dollars went to the mega-banks that were “too big to fail”. Let’s put the money where it belongs, in the hands of students who are trying to better themselves, and not in the pockets of CEOs who tried to better themselves at the expense of others.
12. The people who still haven’t figured out what that turn-signal thing is on their car. (Here’s a tip: You’re supposed to use it.)
13. The people at happy hour who take one sip of a low-grade alcoholic beverage and then start scream-laughing at everything that is said at the table. You might not think so, but you are very annoying. You need to go back home and practice before you try this again. The proper and respectful consumption of alcohol in a public setting is an art that you have to learn. Perhaps you couldn’t afford the tuition fees? See above.
14. The people who never question the status quo. Progress only happens when people raise their hands. And keep them raised.
15. The executives in the music industry who have long since forgotten, or never knew, what good music really means. Of course, we have lots of blame to spread around here, with some of it shoved toward consumers who don’t think a song is any good unless the requisite accompanying video has plenty of blinking lights and whirling cameras to accentuate the plotless plot.
16. The people at drive-thru ATMS who have apparently never used an ATM before. What could you possibly be doing that is taking thirty minutes? It doesn’t matter how many buttons you push, if you don’t have any money in your account, then you are not going to get a magical gift from Jesus. Put your car in gear and get the hell out of here.
17. The people who are absolutely obsessed with insisting that a woman complete a pregnancy, but then they don’t give a single damn once that child is born, slashing welfare and medical coverage and educational opportunities, refusing to raise the minimum wage, chiseling away at maternity leave and then demonizing the mother when she asks for assistance with raising the child she was forced to carry because a political party is trying to win votes.
18. The people who make personal couture decisions based on what is trending on Twitter. Here’s a thought: How about you wear what you want, cut your hair the way you want, and simply live your life in a manner that makes you happy instead of trying to conform to what some hashtag says you should be? Unless the hashtag is #NoSocksWithSandals. You should share and click “like” on that one.
19. The people who still think “The Walking Dead” is some dumbass series about zombies. There’s more honesty and validation in every single episode than you can find in any of those “reality” shows that have usurped the airwaves. I don’t care if America thinks I can dance. I just want Carol on my side when it hits the fan.
20. The people who walk out of public restrooms, leaving the facility in a condition that looks like the sewage system fought back and you lost. If you are this nasty in public, what does your private bathroom look like? Let us pray.
21. The people who have garage sales every weekend. If your junk was actually worth anything, don’t you think people would have already bought it by now? Haul that mess to the dump and get a fresh start on life.
22. The non-military people who drive Hummers. There is absolutely no reason for this. None.
23. The people who demonize other cultures out of ignorance and fear.
24. The people at restaurants who demand to see the manager because the server didn’t read your mind and instead listened to what actually came out of your mouth. Own your mistakes; don’t point at other people when you get caught with your hand in the stupid jar.
25. The people who cannot open their mouths without belching dissatisfaction and negativity. You woke up this morning, and you are still alive. That’s a pretty good start in my book. Now get off your ass and go build something instead of trying to tear everything down.
26. The “writers” who produce really crappy e-books which clutter up the digital inventory, making it harder for a reader to find something of more substance. I’m not saying that there isn’t a special niche market for things like “Destiny Willowthigh Takes Her Mount to the Burly Blacksmith (Book 1 in the ‘Destiny Rides Everything in Sight’ Series)”. I’m sure Destiny is a very lovely person and her story needs to be told. But it’s a little unsettling to search for “philosophy” in the Amazon bookstore and get a return display where 19 of the book covers feature gauzily-dressed nymphets clinging to chesty men, straddling coal-black stallions, or peering seductively from behind an antique barn door. Meanwhile, down in the right corner of the display, where short-attention span shoppers never make it, we have a single cover featuring the works of Proust, the expression on his face making it clear that he does not relish the company he is currently keeping.
27. The people who cannot see what they have, only what they don’t have.
28. The people who didn’t make it this far in the list because there are more than 140 characters and there are no blinking lights.
Cheers.
Originally published in “Bonnywood Manor” on 02/17/16. Minimal changes made. Since this piece is two years old, the reference to Margo “nominating” me is antiquated, but I liked the flow and I didn’t want to jack with it. (You should still go visit Margo’s site if you haven’t had the pleasure; you’ll be glad you did.) Obvious attempt to jump-start the comments: Who would YOU banish to Room 101?
Categories: Humor
Wonderful list. You know No. 6 is a big one for me. As for No. 2, just the other day I saw a cart collector empty several messy shopping trolleys (that’s what we call them).
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Fair enough, I’m perhaps being a bit harsh on the trolley collectors. I’m a little jaded in that I always manage to snag the trolley that hasn’t been shown much respect during the collection ceremony…
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1.) People who let their friends who just arrived stand infront of them on an ATM line when other people have been standing behind them for hours
2.) People who have too many children when they can’t even feed themselves.
3.) People who visit a country for one week and return with an accent.
4.) People who make instagram or Snapchat videos of themselves with open mouths and not saying anything.
(I guess it is supposed to be sexy but it makes them look stupid to me).
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All of these are admirable contributions to the collection, and I might just have to do a sequel post… 😉
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congrats, and happy you have the lobe. i made it all the way to the end –
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I never doubted that you would… 😉
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People who ‘like’ a post you made around 6 months ago and then follow you in the risible hope that you will dutifully reciprocate. Here be ‘lifestyle’ boggers and people who aspire to teach you how to ‘write properly’
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I say this with slight hesitation, because I actually follow a handful of blogs that are technically “lifestyle” in nature yet they are brilliantly done, but the overwhelming tsunami of self-worship lifestyle blogs explains everything one needs to know about how society has devolved in so many ways…
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Quite 🙂
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I read every other one, I hope that counts. 😋
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Of course it counts. I’d much rather be half-used than not used at all… 😉
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Haha, you make me laugh and thank you very much 😘
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Love the whole list, but this is what I always want to say to the people of # 25 !!!

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Exactly. Quit your whinin’ and celebrate what you’ve got…
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Great post! Just nominated you for the Liebster Award.
-Details here-
https://maanini.wordpress.com
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Woo hoo! I’m off to check it out… 🙂
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Great list! I see I have been banished (#8!!). I would like to add those people that drive behind me, at night, either with their brights on or so damn close to my vehicle that I have to hunch forward and down and turn my side mirrors in so I am not blinded by their light. Anybody in my vehicle during those times should bring ear plugs because the profanity and the screaming that follows really shouldn’t be heard by anyone! Thanks for listening. It feels good to get that out there.
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I’m glad that you were able to get it all out. That’s what it’s all about here at Bonnywood, releasing all our frustrations and getting on with our lives. (And yes, those high-beam tailgaters deserve a very special punishment.) But I can’t believe that you are guilty of #8. You seem very sharp and quick to respond in a witty manner. Or have you been misleading me… 😉
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I am trying to come up with a witty response. It will probably come to me tomorrow 😉
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Like them all – yet another post that falls in the category of sad-but-true.
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And it hurts my heart that the sad-but-true category has been filled to the brim lately…
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Yup – I know the feeling.
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“Uhhh yes, I’ll have the Kung Pao” <<<<>>>>>> “uhhh, I’ll have the Kung Pao…..nothing?” 😂🤣 #9 is one of the reasons I love you, I too want Carol in my camp, but that #8 though…🤤😲 (lol, cux you *know*) 😁
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Of course I know. I’m all about the knowing of that know. Mmm hmm.
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One of my favourite long journey games is ‘Room 101’ – this might give you a sneak peek into the way my mind works …. it’s pretty full in there 😉
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Oh, I think I already have more than a sneak peek. I’ve got the full wide-screen version. Or at least I hope I do, because I like what I see…
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Flattery, no matter how vague, works EVERY time chez moi 😉
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I agree with all of the above and would add my list, but the majority of people here in my little corner of Tennessee make it difficult to narrow my comment down to an acceptable number worthy of a comment and not a post.
Bless their hearts!
Now keep taking notes!!
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I will always take notes, just as I always wait for you to come along and make me smile…
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Oh wow, can I relate! As to Sim’s #2, that might well relate to your #17. One of the things that raises my ire very quickly – all those mostly old men decided what I can do with my body. You don’t have a clue guys, so get your nose out of my business, please. Or even if I don’t say please. I have long been saying our government needs to be tossed into a large bag, shaken up, then dumped out to try again – now I’m wondering, or maybe I’m fearing, that that’s what’s happening now.
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yes indeed. not right to life, but forced birthers, as they have less than any interest in the support/nuturing of that being post birth. grrrrrrr.
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Carol: This is the sea change that I keep waiting for, when the mostly old men only have any say in things that affect old men. We’re getting there, but it’s taking an annoyingly long amount of time…
Steph: I just want to slap the forced birthers. Violence may not be the answer, but I would sure feel good doing it…
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A LOT OF these I completely relate to…okay….so just about all of em!!
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Hurray! I knew you were a kindred soul… 😉
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People are jerks!
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I’m under the weather a little this morning and there will be no verbosity from this corner. You did provide a much needed belly laugh though…I’m floored. Truly. Got to admit #6 caught me a bit on the raw because now and then I get the gauntlet of “why is she parking THERE” stares and whispers about my suitability as a handicapped person because I can walk. I just can’t walk far and I don’t do it well. Your comment made me laugh and I’m not wounded, truly. Just been on that other side… I’ll go ponder these and one of these days a response will surface. Promise.
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Trust, I’m not talking about you with #6. I’m talking about the heathens who have no qualms about commandeering a handicap tag that they clearly don’t need. Worse yet are the folks who snatch a handicap parking spot when they don’t even have a tag.
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This is great! Especially the last one. Why are people so afraid of reading? Has technology really messed with our attention spans that bad or are people just lazy? I’m on my laptop way too much yet I prefer longer blogs, longer articles.
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It truly baffles me when someone says that my blog posts are too long, and I actually get this all the time. What’s wrong with taking the time to tell a story in the way a story was meant to be told? Sigh…
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Right?! Lol. A story told without detail is just boring. You wouldn’t tell a story that way in conversation. Everyone would be bored without all the detail.
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those who only send “awards” on blogs–the chain letters of the blogosphere. Fine if you feel like it, and fine if I don’t.
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And one of my other favorites, clients or potential clients who leave URGENT messages and then when I call them back an hour or so later, say, oh, I’m find now, or I got an appointment somewhere else. Tells me what I need to know, I suppose.
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This reminds me of my many decades at Verizon. So many self-important people wasting my time with unimportant things. Can we get any degree of focus in society anymore?
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what? incoming text, I’ll get back to you.
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Brilliant.you went again in my mind and stole my list😜
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I really need to stop doing that before you get a restraining order issued against me… 😉
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Ha ha ha no I don’t think you are a such danger😉
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Every single one you mentioned plus people who post selfies every single hour with accompanying Googled quotes about blessings in their lives (what made them think their faces are actual blessings?) and all those people with no sense of decency whatsoever from type A to Z…
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This kills me. I don’t put anything on social media unless I think it has at least a tiny degree of merit in some way. Yet we have all these people running around and worshipping themselves for no reason whatsoever…
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Merit, that is the operative word! Just what is it that makes people think social media is a place to worship themselves and that self-worth is measured by the number of likes?
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Oh Brian, you ought to be more careful not to overuse your humor. I fear once the people of earth discover you are not from this planet, they might not take to you as well as I they do now.
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Shhh. Let’s not reveal my alien status to the rest of this planet just yet. Most of them are not ready… 😉
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Ah don’t you worry one bit, they can’t possibly read that encrypted message. To them it looks as if am inviting you to check out an offer for a paid vacation to the Maldives or Seychelles or whatever other destination comes to the mind of these hedonistic creatures. Your secret is safe.
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Great 💙👍
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Thank you!
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OMG! No wonder I have no friends most of the people I know are in Room 101
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I’m surprised I’m not in there myself… 😉
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I think I can take everything else, if we just get rid of #20. We need to fund a study to get to the bottom of this issue. Who ARE these people? Are they completely clueless or criminally insane? Seriously Brian, let’s call our congress people now!
My only other addition to your list — and I may have griped about this before — are the people who post pictures of their feet. You know the ones? Here are my feet on the beach! Here they are dangling from the ski lift! And now they’re in a lounge chair in Waikiki!
Why, why, WHY are they taking pictures of their FEET?!
A-hem. Sorry. Didn’t mean to lose it there. Carry on.
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I don’t get the feet thing, either. One snap every once in a while can be cute and clever. Entire travelogues based on such? Just say no. And then we have the people who power-pose in their vacation photos, cutting off the famous landmark behind them. “Here’s me visiting the Eiffel Tower!” and all you can see is one tiny bit of one leg of the tower and one giant bit of some fool cheesing for the camera…
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Carol! Yes! I want her on my side. Carl? Nope. He might lose his other eye. 😉
And to add to your list – people who talk to you one day and ignore you on others – what’s up with that???
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Yep, that would be another excellent additional, the folks who only have time for you when they need something…
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All still very current. I agreed with most if not all.
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Thanks, Sascha!
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I can relate to 9,11,15,17,23,27,28…oh, for pity sake, I like the whole dang thing. And thanks for all the laughs. I’ve been catching up and going through a gazillion messages but take time to savor your humor. A tonic, as they used to say.
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You are most welcome to the laughs, and I rather fancy the idea of being a tonic. Speaking of catching up, I really need to sit down at some point and methodically go through your backlog, rather than my current random-click method. Your pieces are always fascinating…
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Great list! Agree with all. And especially yes, when super inconsiderate humans who are perfectly fine healthwise park in a handicapped zone. Such self absorption. You just know theybvoted for T**** .
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I’m sure they voted for T, assuming they got off their lazy asses long enough to do so…
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