Great Balls of Fire: 10 Things I Learned About Wearing Contacts for the First Time

  Note: Okay, fessing a little, I DID try wearing contacts way back in the day, like 1983, when they were these hard, inflexible buttons that you basically had to glue to your eyeball and you couldn’t really close your eyelids comfortably when they hit that damn speed bump. I did NOT have a good experience, and I quickly abandoned them. But this last eye doctor visit, I thought, what the hell, let’s try them again. And here we go…

1. The eye-dilation thing.

Okay, I know they need to do this, so they can peer in there and see what might have ruptured or is possibly missing, but since this part is optional and I hate it, I usually decline. However, this time around the doctor made a slightly smart-ass comment that the last time my eyes looked like Little Orphan Annie was roughly the same time as the Mayflower ran aground in Plymouth. Fine. Go ahead and do it.

This process takes two sets of drops, apparently. The first round preps your eyes for the dilation drops. And it hurt like a mother. To be fair, she did warn me just before the hellacious burning began, standing there and fingering a garlic glove around her neck in case I should completely lose my mind from the pain. Then plink, plink, sweet Baby JESUS my eyes are exploding in my head, and I think I wet myself a little.

Once I could remember my name, she moved in for the second round, and I briefly considered taking her life. But I was a little disoriented and she had me wet before I fully realized what was going on. And she was right, that second set of plinks was NOTHING after the sensation of thousands of miniature people stabbing my eyes with pointy sticks. I felt like Karen Black at the end of her episode of “Trilogy of Terror”, that movie where she pissed off the little grunting African doll with the spear, then pissed him off even more by throwing him in the oven and trying to make a casserole out of him.

Anyway, Doctor Lady then sends me back out to the waiting room, so I can relax while my eyes try to do the same. No problem. I’m happy to be anywhere that doesn’t have shelves filled with chemicals that one can pluck up at random and try to blister my eyeballs. I trot quickly down the hallway, the torturous memories already fading as I get further from that place that shall now be known as The Chamber of Liquid Pain, Wherein Dwells the She-Beast with Squirting Devices.

I wander into the waiting area and plop down next to my bestie, Tiffany. She and I have journeyed on this adventure together, both of us having been a bit lackadaisical with not having our eyes checked for several decades. There have been many consecutive instances of us drinking adult beverages together and reaching that “Norma Rae” moment of imbibing, where we swear to do everything we can to change the world, including get our eyes checked, but we never do. There’s always something on TV to distract us.

But we finally got our act together and made dual appointments. Well, she made the appointments. If it had been left up to me, it never would have happened, because I just don’t care enough. Anyway, she thankfully did, and we both traipsed in here as one, and therefore I assumed that she would want to know all about how I had been savaged in an ocular manner in a room where there were no witnesses.

“So, how’d it go?” she asks, nonchalantly flipping the pages of an outdated magazine. (Why do doctors always have old magazines in their offices? They make enough money to keep up the subscription payments. It just seems shady to me. Anyone?)

“Well,” I say, stupidly assuming that anyone in this world actually cares about the viciousness in my life during the last thirty minutes, “they dilated me. I’m dilated now. Ready to spit out a kid at any moment.” I beam and wait for hearty praise over my determined jocularity in this dark time.

“That’s nice,” says Tiffany, in a tone that I instantly recognize as meaning “I’m right in the middle of a story about John Travolta and I’m really not enthused about your unrequited intrusion”.

Oh. Okay, Plan B. “Your blouse is really pretty.”

She already knows this, having obviously made the wardrobe selection herself and not needing any pointless self-esteem boosts. She chooses instead to weakly smile, not respond verbally, and turn yet another page with her exquisitely-manicured index finger, a digit featuring a dainty flower carefully applied by some overworked minion in a nail salon where at least three different languages are spoken by the staff, none of them English.

Fine. I am not going to be validated. I sigh and turn to a small coffee table where various brochures have been placed, just in case anyone gets bored enough to actually read them. I spy one featuring colored contact lenses, and this titillates me enough that I snatch it up. I work my way through a few pages in the pamphlet, and then I come across an inspiration that is so soul-confirming that I nearly wet myself again.

It’s a model, and her name is Anna, along the lines of “This is Anna sporting another color in our deluxe line of products” kind of Anna. The model herself is not my focal point, she has all the wrong body parts, but her eyes are sheathed in a lens color known as “Gemstone Green”.

I want that color for my own eyes. I want that color NOW. I’ve never wanted anything more in my life, at least not in the last five minutes.

I try to get Tiffany’s attention again, and after several attempts at doing so, she finally turns to me with an expression that clearly implies “I am only going to talk to you because they made me turn off my cell phone in this office and my need to communicate with the world is being annoyingly tested.” You have two seconds before I lose interest.

I proffer Anna, she of the fake green eyes that have inspired me so.

Tiffany glances briefly, the picks up her magazine again, not impressed. “That’s nice,” she mutters.

I decide that I hate Tiffany. At least a little bit.

Then I become aware that the dilation of my pupils is now a real and solid thing. There are three Annas staring up at me from the brochure, and this is not a calming thing to experience. I don’t want three models with fake eyes to be peering at me at the same time. It’s unsettling. Actually, more than that. It’s like a scene in “Rosemary’s Baby” before Mia Farrow realizes that she should just rip that stupid necklace off and throw it in the gutter.

Just then, Doctor Lady comes prancing down the hallway and calls out my name. I try to smile at the one of the three that I think is actually the real one, and I lurch out of my seat. (Tiffany makes a hissing noise as my jostling actions force her to start over on another paragraph about John Travolta and his mystifying embrace of Scientology.) I stumble toward the beckoning doctors.

And, of course, the doctors lead me back to the Chamber of Liquid Pain. I’m really not comfortable with this, but it must be done and I persevere. One of the doctors slams the door shut, and I contemplate the fact that I may never be seen again. I hope someone remembers to feed the cats.

“So,” says another one of the doctors, “it appears that you are dilated now.” (Are you basing this assessment on the fact that I am drooling and crying and trying to figure out which of the three chairs I should sit in? If so, yes.) I finally trip over something solid, assume it’s a chair, and shove my ass into it. I turn to face the six-eyed Yeti whose facial expression indicates that she just lost a furry child in the blizzard and she is out for revenge.

She closes in while I whimper. To up the intimidation, she slaps on a miner’s helmet with a big-ass spotlight on the front of it. “This will help me look into your eyeball.” Really? How can anyone feel comfortable hearing a statement like that? Then she’s on point, craning her neck about and barking out orders that I should look at the one hand she’s holding up beside her head, wiggling her fingers like deadly strands of seaweed that only want to drag me to the depths of the ocean and bash my skull in with the body of a dead stingray.

Then she’s done. “No tumors!” she exclaims, and I’m so discombobulated that I don’t know if this is a good or a bad thing. She hops off of me (wait, when did she get ON me?) and pulls off some rubber gloves that I never noticed in the first place. (What exactly was she touching that she needed gloves?) “Everything looks good. No rips, no tears. And no tumors!”

Why does she keep saying that, the “no tumors” thing? I’d never even thought about tumors in my eye. Thanks for the new nightmares, Hagatha.

She throws open the door, letting artificial light sear my dilated and horror-filled eyes. She yanks me out of the chair, or maybe I fell out, things were blurry and random, and next thing I know we are somehow in that hallway leading back to the reception area. I have no coordination whatsoever, so I’m just following anything that moves.

We get to the desk, where fake attendants are offering fake smiles, and the doctors make their pronouncements. I’m all good for the glasses part of the exam. But I’ll have to come back for the contact lens bit, because it’s pointless to fit me for contacts when I can’t tell my toes from my ass. Somebody shoves an appointment card at me, which I grasp lovingly, because it might somehow help me make it through the next part of my life.

There’s more shoving of various kinds, and then I realize that I am standing in front of Tiffany. At least I hope it’s Tiffany. The blouse appears to have the right blurry colors, so that’s encouraging. She hops out of her chair with effortless coordination, since the Yeti didn’t dilate her, and she scurries out of the office. I lurch along behind her, not really sure that I like her at all, but she at least knows some of the same people that I do, and maybe a mutual companion will take pity on me at some point.

We make our way into the mall proper. (Oh wait, I probably didn’t mention that we were at a shopping mall. Yep, Tiffany insists on combining eye care with potential exposure to outfits that will make her look even more fabulous. It’s part of the deal with her.) Once firmly ensconced in the pathways of ancient mall-walkers who will knock you down in their quest for consistent blood-flow, Tiffany turns to me. “Okay, what do you want to do now?

I pause. This could be a trap. She’s making it sound like I have free will in the matter, but it’s entirely possible that we fully discussed what we would do next and this is a test to see if I remember the details. I don’t, not right at the moment, with pain taking a good 97% of my attention, so I word my response carefully. “Well, before we take off, I think I just need to get some fresh air for a minute. Then we can do… that thing.”

Tiffany nods. “Okay, we have some time to kill before we meet the Garzas at Ojeda’s. Follow me.” Then she’s off and running, on a mission, the multiple images of her darting about like a cheesy LSD trip in a late 60s movie about hitchhikers and songwriters. I’m fully expecting Joan Baez to start warbling on the soundtrack.

I’m not as quick out of the chute, still digesting the intel. Oh, right. We’re doing the margarita happy-hour thing. I’m not sure I can get the salted glass anywhere near my lips right now, but I sure could use an adult beverage, even if I have to lay on the ground and let people pour it into my mouth.

“Are you coming or not?” sing-queries Joan, with a possible Bob Dylan providing backing vocals. (What the hell was in those drops? Is this really a shadowy government experiment of some kind? Anybody have any Funyuns? I’m suddenly really hungry.)

The Tiffanys lead me into Dillard’s, one of those anchor stores that actually have portals to the mammoth parking lot outside, a concrete boa constrictor that encircles the mall. (I really tried to behave as we tromped through the store, but I must admit it was very difficult considering I faced three times the normal amount of clothes mannequins, all of them intent on killing me with their bald heads and unnatural poses.)

Finally, we slam through the outer doors, into a promised land where the sun still shines and the birds still sing. I take two steps into said sunlight, and then fall to my knees in agony and pain as the light enters my eyes with blinding intensity, writhing about in unregulated and unattractive spasms.

“Really?” asks Tiffany, already whipping out her phone to make a Twitter update that will destroy me socially. “Does it always have to be about you?”

To Be Continued. Eventually…


Previously published. Minor revisions have been made, mostly concerning my apparent inability to keep a story in the same verb tense all the way through. Story behind the photo: A lovely and innocent campfire that we birthed at the woodsy cabin during our recent visit to Broken Bow, Oklahoma, mere seconds before we got stupid and decided to chunk a ginormous pizza box on top of the flames. Friends really shouldn’t let friends burn things. Or get dilated in a shopping mall…

Lots of secondary notes this time.

One: As you can tell by the title, I originally meant to scribble TEN reasons why I do not play well with contacts. But I only mentioned one, and I never got around to the other nine personal grievances. Because, focus issues.

Two: In the last share of this piece, I promised that I would finish the story with great haste. That did not happen, hence the “eventually”. This means I lie a lot, at least when it comes to writing projects. Keep this in mind if we’re ever trapped together on an otherwise deserted island. I’m shifty.

Three: Along those same lines, I mentioned in the footer of a recent post that Bubbles and I nearly perished at a gas station. Some of you (although not very many of you, come to think of it, giving me fodder for my woe-is-me diary) expressed concern and wanted more details. Those details are forthcoming (possible lie!) but not just yet, as I’m still processing the trauma.

Four: Speaking of Bubbles, she departed the Manor today for other planned excursions as she travels the country, although she will be coming back at some point. As such, I should be able to get some completely fresh posts up in the next few days. (More lies!)

Five: Cheers. (Not lying, really mean it, swear.)


33 replies »

  1. What in God’s name kind of ophthalmologists do you have there? In the voice of James Earl Jones: “Welcome to the Cornea Crypt. Dr Peppercorn will be with you directly … hahaha.” Eeek. I have had this procedure done several times and it never hurts. Feels a bit weird and they make me wear sunglasses while waiting around for the check, but no burning. That’s awful.

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    • This is Texas, where there’s not a lot of concern about personal validation. I would imagine that many of the opthamologists consider eye exams akin to branding cattle. Just do what you can to get the bovines through the chute and collect your fees. This explains why we haven’t had a decent governor since Ann Richards, nearly three decades ago…

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  2. Sorry to hear about your experiences. I am not allowed to wear contact lenses and it’s just as well, because I am not about to poke myself in the eyes. Also, Gucci Eyewear would go bankrupt if my corneas got reshaped, my sun sensitivity went away, and I didn’t need three different pairs of glasses anymore. Next stop, Tom Ford.


    • Ah, interesting that you name-dropped Gucci. My previous pair of sunglasses (prescription, of course) was from said House of Gucci. They were metal and sharply-angular and I loved them. My current pair? Kenneth Cole, still prescription. I love them in a different way, but equally so. Apparently I am fated to yearn for the finer things in life, even though I really can’t afford them…

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  3. I don’t think I’ve ever had this dilation procedure… on my eyes. Are you sure Ashton Kutcher wasn’t hiding with a camera crew??

    You’re not a liar… just forgetful, like me. It comes from having fully embraced the fun of the ’80s. It’s okay… we suffer from C.R.S. (can’t remember sh!t) there are support groups and everything…😘

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    • I’m still a little suspicious about the true reasoning behind my violent dilation. Something seemed a bit off there, but I was too distraught to pull any Nancy Drew action.

      Yes, I fully embraced the 80s, although not as vehemently as some did. Still, something happened somewhere and my memory is squat, especially the short-term kind. It’s annoying as hell, since I used to be sharp as a tack, easily remembering every tiny detail about everything, much to the annoyance of everyone around me. Those days are gone….

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  4. So what you’re telling us is basically that you may never tell us if you and Anna ended up as ocular twins?

    So mean.

    I think you might deserve to have your eyes dilated again. Regularly if not weekly.

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    • That’s a rather harsh bit of wishful thinking on your part, Barb. What did I ever do to you? Wait, don’t answer that. Because I probably did it and I just don’t remember… 😉


  5. Sounds like they were prepping the peepers for the now necessary lasik procedure; its called softening up the vict- client. Question; Did you ever try to become green eyed after the red-eyes? Also, old Readers Digresses have to go somewhere to die, why not Igors Optometrists?

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    • According to my lawyer (whom I haven’t been able to pay since I retired, so his opinion is questionable) I should refrain from answering any of your queries. But I will admit to softening up, something that has increasingly happened to my once-noble (at least in my own mind) musculature ever since I tripped over the speed-bump of turning 50 years old, many moons ago…

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  6. sorry, but I must admit, I did have quite a few laughs at this post, not directed at you of course, but you may still be dilated and not clearly see my face anyway ) – glad you lived to tell

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  7. My first set of contacts were the glass ones.
    After unsuccessfully trying to explain the pain in my eyes to my mother, I took them out of my eyes, placed them carefully in their container, and threw the container as far as I could into the tank behind our house…never to be seen again.
    My mother was properly horrified, but my dad said it didn’t seem like to him I was a good candidate for contact lens.

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    • My parental reaction to my dissatisfaction with that first round of contact lenses (back in the Stone Age) was the opposite. Mom tried to soothe me and offer comfort in my trying time. Dad was incensed that I wasn’t taking advantage of the fact that his union-based insurance was covering the cost of my unrequited pain. Suffice it to say that I had my preference when it came to parental units… 😉

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  8. I echo Lynette’s remarks (although not in the voice of James Earl. My voice is sultry and pleasing to the ear and I don’t need no James to make it right). What kind of hell-hole do you reside in? O_o Eye care is near and dear to my heart and I’m familiar with the routine, having participated (mostly unwillingly it will be admitted) since I was five years old and they figured out I’m blind as a bat without corrective lenses of some kind. Currently (and for the past thirty odd years) I’ve been under the care of the best damn ophthalmologist group in Utah. I don’t trust my eyes to anyone and going blind is NOT AN OPTION. I have glaucoma, but not your average glaucoma that responds well to affordable eye drops, oh no. For me? It’s complicated and I have to spend a hefty portion of my meager rations to get the eye drops,but I get them.

    When I was 16 I got contact lenses, and like your experience, they were those horrid rigid, stab you in the eye kind. Even when things got flexible in the contact lens world, I still had to use those horrid rigid things because my eyes wouldn’t accept ‘soft’ contact lenses. Finally I just gave up trying to wear those devices of torture, even if ‘men don’t make passes at girls who wear glasses” which was the main motivational factor in me ever getting contacts at all. The pain just wasn’t worth the ten seconds of WHEE! that was my own personal wheelhouse vis a vis frolicky boinkies of the sexual kind (which happened a whole lot later in life than 16. ). TMI? A little, but good eye care bears oversharing. I’m glad you are tumor free, even if you had Gadzilla the Hun for a ‘doctor’.

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    • Well, in an odd little twist (okay, maybe not so odd, considering it’s me) I went through a reverse-psychology phase of the “girls who wear glasses” angle during my early 20s. I actually would wear glasses from time to time even though I didn’t need them.(They were powerless, clear glasses, especially a pair of vintage safety glasses that I managed to find somewhere). I suppose I might have been going for the “sexy nerd” angle, if you want to get all psychological about it, but I just liked the way I looked in them. And apparently others did too since, as we’ve discussed, I had a decided trollop flair during this time and I had very busy weekends, so to speak.

      Now? I definitely need them. Gone are the magical days when I could read a road sign in the next county…

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  9. I’ve worn glasses since I was in the third grade. (Without glasses, I can make out the big E at the top of the chart, but not the two slightly smaller letters under the E.) I was never considered a good candidate for contacts, being that a strong glass of orange juice can make my eyes water. I am not fond of having my eyes dilated, which the doctor claims she must do to make sure that my retinas are staying attached. She’s never mentioned cancer. And it’s been years since I’ve taken company with me to the eye doctor (or vice versa). Other than that, I can relate. J.

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    • I actually had terrific vision for the first several decades of my life. I was in my late 30s before I even noticed an issue, and even then it was minimal. It’s only been the last 10 years or so where glasses became truly necessary. Some of it is the natural result of getting older, but I put a lot of the blame on staring at computer screens all day during my 30 years at Verizon. I can still see said screens just fine, but my distance vision and close-up vision is whacked. Good times… 😉

  10. I admit, the length of your first point caused me a bit of consternation. Fearing the subsequent 9 might be just as long, I began to wonder if I should pause for a bathroom break. 😉

    I wore contacts for a few years, but finally started with the glasses and have enjoyed getting multiple pairs. Have you seen the ads for Zenni? My daughter has ordered from them and has been quite happy with them.

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    • Yes, the wordiness in Point One completely got away from me, thus altering my plans for the entire story. (Which is why I still haven’t gotten around to the remaining stations of the cross.) Still, bottom line, it’s probably a good idea to always attend to biological needs prior to perusing a Bonnywood tale…

      Ohhhh. I had never heard of Zenni, but now I’m poking around on their site. Very interesting, and I’m already lusting for a few of the pairs. Wait. How are these things so cheap? I must dig further…

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      • I wondered the same thing and yet my daughter’s specs look and feel like the real thing. I don’t know how much is the overhead involved in our typical optical purchases, or their thinking “we’ll charge more because we can.”


  11. Good lord, what kind of drops WERE they? Has my eye doctor been using a placebo all along? Because I’ve never had to have two sets and the one I had didn’t hurt at all. What have I been paying for? As for me, I had laser surgery a few years ago and gave up the contacts at last. Now my eyes are always blue, but at least I can see really well. Now if you want to talk about burning, let me tell you about laser surgery…

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    • I don’t know what was up with those drops, and I still haven’t ruled out the possibility that same nefarious plot was underfoot, wherein somebody just wanted me to suffer, seeking revenge for something I may have done during my wild college days but I no longer remember. I’ll keep you posted, should I learn more…

      I don’t really qualify for the surgery, as my eyes aren’t super terrible. In fact, MOST of the time, I don’t even need my glasses. It’s more a distance and driving thing. Ideally, the situation will stay that way, but based on the rate of decay with other aspects of my body, I’m sure there will be an ocular revolt on the horizon at some point…

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